bhaarat mein maata aur betee rishte aaj - yuktiyaan hindee bhaasha aaj ke samay mein maan aur betee ke rishte ko kaisa hona chaahie - apanee chhotee see bachchee ko umr ke ek-ek seedhee tay karake kishoree, phir yuvatee, usake baad ek mahila banatee dekh har maan ke lie ek anokha anubhav hota hai | maan hee betee ko usake bhavishy ke lie taiyaar hai
maan betee ke beech paraspar vishvaas ka rishta hota hai | maataon jahaan betiyon ko jindagee ke har achchhe bure samay ke lie taiyaar karata hai vahee betiyaan apanee zindagee ke har nirnay mein maan ka raay poorn mahatv hota hai, umr ka is padaav tak pahunche-pahunchate maata-betee ek doosare ke sukh dukh pareshaanee aur dard baantana lagatee hain | apanee baatiya ko haath pakad kar is mod tak laane ka daayitv maan ka hee hota hai kuchh baaten aisee hain jo ki maan se shuroo se hee apanee laadalee ko bataatee hai to vah jindagee ka behatar dhang se saamana karane ke lie taiyaar ho jaate hain.
jindagee phoolon kee sej nahin hai
kishoraavastha mein aankhon mein dher sapane jaag jaate hain duniya mein sab kuchh behad haseen aur aasaan lagata hai | lekin maan jaanatee hai ki yah hakeekat nahin hai jindagee mein bahut sangharsh hote hain, koee bhee cheej aasaanee se nahin milatee baaton-baaton mein aap apanee betee ko jindagee ke is sach mein roobaroo karavaen |
stree parivaar kee dooree hai
mahilaon par hee poore parivaar ko chalaane aur sabhee ko ek saath chalane kee jimmedaaree hotee hai stree ke baare mein-gird hee pati aur bachchon kee duniya ghoomatee hai aisee sthiti mein yah ek maan ka daayitv hai ki vah apanee betee ko ek jimmedaar mahila banane mein sahaayata karen | shuroo se hee betee parivaar mein sabhee ke saath saath baraabaree aur sammaan ka vyavahaar karana |
aatm nirbhar hona jarooree hai
bitiya ko shuroo se hee padhaee ka mahatv samajhao puraanee maanyataen ab badal rahee hain aajakal ladake to kaamakaajee patnee chaahane hee hain, svayan ladakiyon ke lie bhee apane pairon par khade hona jarooree hai | bhavishy hamesha sukhad hota hai, isakee koee gaarantee nahin hai yadi aap ya usake bhavishy ke pati ko nahin chaahate ki aap ke bateee naukaree karen to bhee use kuchh tarah ke vyaavasaayik yogyata ko nishchit karana chaahie, jis par kaam karane ke lie use poora karana chaahie. betee ko jindagee ke har rang ke lie taiyaar karen aur use apanee zindagee ka sahee nirnay karana kaabil banaen |
betee ko paise kee kadar karana sikhen
aksar kishor bachche ke paise kee kadr nahin | philmen dekhana, nae kapadon ya mekap par anaap-shanaap kharch karane kee aadat apane bachchon aur vishesh roop se baatiya mein to bilkul na aane dena | aakhirakaar usee par apane parivaar ko achchhe tareeke se chalaane kee jimmedaaree aane vaala hai | maan hee betee mein shauk aur jaroorat ko alag karane kee yogyata hai ghar ka bajat banaate samay yuva betee ko bhee saath rakhen to behatar hoga
apane shareer kee prati vah khud ko jimmedaar hai
aajakal ke badalate mooly aur videshee chainalon ke badhate prabhaav ke kaaran kishoraavastha mein aphasar bachchon ke kadam bhatak jaate hain | to kabhee-kabhee ghar se baahar ke kuchh log bachchiyon kee maasoomiyat ka laabh uthaane kee koshish karate hain ek maan kee yogyata se yah aapakee jimmedaaree hai, ki aap betee ko apane shareer ke prati sajag karen | use batao ki apanee streetv ka prati vah khud ko jimmedaar hona chaahie aap aur aapake betee ke beech itana khulaapan ho ki agar use kabhee kisee tarah ka durghatana ho, to bhee vah sabase pahale aapako bataenge. isee ke saath bitiya ko sahee aur garimaapoorn tareeke se sajane-sanvarane ke vyaktitv ko savaar aur vikasit hona shareer kee paryaapt saaph-saphaee rakhane ke lie sabhee aavashyak jaanakaaree den |
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